Many of you, even the tech-reluctant have heard of facebook and may very well already be part of facebook. But for those who are wondering what all this is about, let’s talk facebook. Facebook is another one of those things referred to by the way overused and all-encompassing term of social networking. Basically, facebook is a way to catch up with your friends. Once you sign up, you can create a profile where you put information about yourself and a picture of yourself. Well, it should be a picture of yourself but I find a lot of my facebook friends turn out to be cats or cars or, more often, children. You can include your address, workplace, web pages, email addresses, etc. on your profile but note this profile will be available to anyone if you make your profile public or all your “friends” if you restrict it to friends only. So, provide information carefully.
You’ll note that I put the word friends in quotes before and I did so for a reason. A facebook friend is anyone who asks you to be a friend and you accept or vice versa. So along with you best friend and your sister, you might also end up being friends with an old classmate you barely remember or the parent of your child’s classmate who you met twice at birthday parties. So, again, be careful of who you become friends with and if you choose to have more friends that you don’t really know well, be careful what you share on facebook. Do you really want that fellow Kindergarten parent to see your picture from a drunken night in Cuba?
Yes, you can add pictures to facebook and video as well. That’s one of my favourite parts of facebook. I like looking at other peoples’ pictures and catching up with old friends without having to call or meet them and look at the pictures of their kids in real life. Maybe at first glance, that last line sounded sad, that I would rather meet people in cyberspace than in real life, but if I had to keep up with all the people I keep up with on facebook, I would have to spend hours with people every day and travel from here to Florida to Texas to Vancouver and well beyond. And really, while I might want to see an old teacher’s retirement party pictures, I don’t necessary want to call her and speak to her about it. Take note, though, that when you add photos and videos, pay attention to the privacy settings. You can choose who can see your photos and videos and the choices include everyone, friends of friends or friends only. I always choose friends only but I know lots of people don’t because I can see their photos even though I’m not a friend. Even choosing friends of friends means hundreds and probably thousands of people you don’t know can now see your photos or videos.
Then there’s the status updates on facebook. Like Twitter, these updates are people letting you know about what is happening in their lives, from the mundane to the exciting. There are all kinds of status updates and I’ll refer you to a post on my other blog at tinachaulk.com to get a taste of what they are.
Each person in Facebook has a wall where you can post messages to the person. Again all the friends can see the wall so private messages are best handled by another feature, a kind of email service in facebook so you can send private messages. There is also facebook chat for people who want more immediate discussions with friends. There are so many other things you can do on facebook like play games with friends, invite people to events, join or create groups, post interesting links, tell people what music you like, recommend books, I could go on and on. The easiest way to find out more about facebook is to join yourself and start looking for your friends. But a warning, it can be quite addictive.